Bienvenidos · Virtual therapy across California

You’re allowed to take up space in your own life.

Therapy for women and teens in San Diego, CA, ready to feel like themselves again.

Less overthinking. More you.

LMFT #164101 · Licensed in California EMDR Level 1 trained Bilingual · EN/ES
Arielle Katz, LMFT, smiling San Diego therapist in a blue shirt
Your life can look successful, full, and beautifully put together, and still leave you wondering why you don’t feel quite like yourself in it.
Who I help

Two kinds of people find their way here.

For women

You can read a room in seconds and meet everyone’s needs before they ask. What you can’t do is remember the last time you asked what you needed.

Let’s change that. I help women trade overthinking and over-giving for calm, confidence, and the freedom to say “no” and mean it.

For teens

Somewhere between school, friends, and everyone’s expectations, it gets loud in your head. You might be anxious, stressed, or unsure where you fit, and it can feel like no one really gets it.

Therapy can be the one place you don’t have to perform. Together we untangle big emotions, build self-worth, and find tools that actually help.

For parents: Your teen might say “I’m fine,” but you can tell something’s heavy. I work with your teen at a pace that feels right for them, and you’re welcome to be part of the process as much or as little as fits.

Who I work with

Does this sound familiar?

Anxiety and overthinking

You spend a lot of time in your head, worrying about what could go wrong or replaying conversations.

You want to feel calmer, more grounded, and less overwhelmed by your thoughts.

Burnout and people-pleasing

You’re used to taking care of everyone else, being the responsible one, and putting your own needs last.

You want to find balance, set boundaries, and learn to choose yourself without guilt.

Self-worth and confidence

You second-guess yourself, worry about what others think, or struggle to speak up for what you need.

You want to trust yourself, feel more confident, and become comfortable taking up space.

Understanding your past

You’re beginning to understand how your childhood experiences and past relationships have shaped the way you see yourself, navigate relationships, and move through the world.

You want to make sense of these patterns and find new ways of moving forward.

Relationship patterns and boundaries

You find yourself giving more than you receive, struggling to communicate your needs, or repeating patterns in relationships that leave you feeling hurt or disconnected.

You want to build healthier relationships and feel more secure in yourself.

Let’s talk.

If this sounds like you, I’d love to connect! A free 15-minute call is a chance to say hi and see if we’re a fit.

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Arielle Katz, San Diego therapist, sitting on her surfboard in the ocean
Arielle Katz, LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist · #164101
License LMFT #164101, California
Trainings EMDR Level 1 trained · Trauma-informed care
Education M.A. Clinical Counseling · B.A. Family Studies & Human Development
Languages English & Español
Based in North County San Diego · online statewide

Hi! I’m Arielle. I’m so glad you found me!

Maybe life looks mostly okay from the outside, but something inside feels a little off. You’re overthinking everything, saying yes when you mean no, putting yourself last, or simply feeling far away from who you are.

I work with women and teens who are doing their best but still feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure of what they need. For women, that often looks like burnout, anxiety, and people-pleasing. For teens, it’s the big emotions, stress, and pressure that are hard to put into words. Parents, you’re welcome in the process too.

I know what it’s like to be caught between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming. I’ve had my own seasons of overthinking, uncertainty, and change, and while that doesn’t make me an expert on your story, it does mean I understand how messy and confusing life can feel. That’s the empathy I bring to my work.

I want therapy to be a place where you can take a breath, let your guard down, and figure things out without anyone telling you who you’re supposed to be. A place to get out of your head and back into your life, with more clarity, connection, and room to be yourself.

Services

How we can work together

Every session is virtual, anywhere in California, in English or Spanish.

Anxiety Therapy

Anxiety is a smoke alarm that goes off when you’re just making toast. It isn’t a flaw. It’s a brain trying to protect you and overdoing the job. Together, we’ll learn to tell a real alarm from a false one.

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EMDR Therapy

Some memories feel like they’re still happening, even when life has moved on. EMDR helps you move through what still weighs on you, without having to relive every detail, so the past can start to feel like the past.

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Somatic Therapy

Tired, tense, on edge, or disconnected? Your body may be trying to tell you something. Somatic therapy helps you slow down, tune in, and get out of your head and back into your body, so you can feel safer and more at home in your own skin.

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Trauma Therapy

You may not even call it trauma, and that’s okay. Sometimes the hardest part isn’t what happened, but how it still shows up in your anxiety, your relationships, or the way you keep it all together to feel safe. Together, we’ll gently make sense of it, at a pace that feels right for you.

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Therapy for Teens

Growing up comes with a lot of pressure. Therapy can be a place where your teen feels heard, builds confidence, and learns tools that help, with you supported along the way.

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Terapia en Español

Sometimes it’s easier to express what you feel in the language you grew up with. I offer therapy in Spanish, in a space that honors your culture, your family, and your story.

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Not sure which one fits?

You don’t need to know. The free consultation is a chance to share what’s been going on and figure it out together.

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Getting started

Okay, so… what now?

If you’ve made it this far, maybe you’re curious what working together could feel like. Let’s start there.

01

Say hi

Book a free 15-minute consultation. No big commitment, and no perfectly prepared explanation of your life required.

02

See if we’re a fit

Tell me a little about what’s bringing you in, ask anything you want, and see if working together feels right.

03

Start where you are

If it does, we’ll find a regular time and begin, online, from wherever you feel most comfortable.

Rates & sliding scale

Rates

Free 15-min consult
Private pay

Session rates

Individual session (50 min) $175

EMDR Therapy

Extended 90-minute EMDR sessions are available for clients seeking focused support in processing distressing experiences, trauma, and patterns that continue to impact their lives.

90-minute EMDR session $300

Free 15-minute consultation included before your first session.

Sliding scale

Sliding Scale Availability

I offer a limited number of reduced-fee sessions for clients who may not be able to access my full private pay rate. Sliding scale availability is based on current openings and individual circumstances. Please reach out to explore whether this option may be a fit.

FAQ

Things you’re probably wondering.

Do you offer a free consultation?

Yes. I offer a complimentary 15-minute consultation to help determine if we may be a good fit for working together. This is an opportunity to ask questions, learn more about my approach, and discuss what you are looking for in therapy.

Do you offer in-person sessions?

Currently, I offer virtual therapy sessions only through a secure, HIPAA-compliant telehealth platform. Virtual therapy provides a flexible and accessible way to engage in meaningful therapeutic work while creating a comfortable space for reflection and connection.

What is EMDR Therapy?

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a trauma-informed therapy approach designed to help people process distressing experiences, memories, and beliefs that may continue to impact their present-day life. EMDR supports the brain’s natural healing process by helping individuals reconnect with difficult experiences in a way that feels safe, supported, and manageable.

What is somatic therapy?

Somatic therapy explores the connection between your mind and body by paying attention to physical sensations, emotions, and nervous system responses. This approach can help you build greater awareness, regulate stress, and reconnect with yourself in a supportive and grounded way.

Do you offer sliding scale options?

Yes. I believe therapy should feel accessible and offer a limited number of sliding scale spots when available. If you are interested in exploring this option, we can discuss availability and whether a reduced fee may be a good fit during your consultation.

¿Ofreces terapia en español?

Sí. Sesiones completas en español, o mezclando inglés y español, según lo que te salga más natural.

What is your cancellation policy?

I understand that life can be unpredictable, and sometimes plans need to change. I kindly ask for 48 hours’ notice if you need to cancel or reschedule your appointment. Sessions canceled with less than 48 hours’ notice, or missed appointments, will be charged the full session fee.

When possible, I will do my best to find another appointment time within the same week to support continuity of care. This policy allows me to protect the time reserved for you while also honoring the commitment I make to each client I work with.

Ask me yours on a free call Fifteen minutes, no commitment.

Resources & Support

Additional resources and community support that may be helpful along your healing journey.

Crisis & immediate support

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, call or text 988 for immediate emotional support
  • Crisis Text Line, text HOME to 741741
  • San Diego Access & Crisis Line, 1-888-724-7240

EMDR

Community & connection

En español

Terapia en tu idioma, con tu cultura en cuenta.

Sesiones completas en español o mezclando los dos idiomas, con mujeres, adolescentes y familias biculturales.

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Privacy & HIPAA Notice

Your privacy and confidentiality are important. As a licensed mental health provider, I follow applicable privacy practices and protect your health information in accordance with the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) and professional ethical standards.

Please be aware that information submitted through this website, including contact forms or email inquiries, may not be a secure method of communication and should not include sensitive or confidential health information. Information shared through these methods will only be used to respond to inquiries about services and scheduling. For current clients, please use your designated secure communication method for clinical communication.

Good Faith Estimate (No Surprises Act)

Under the No Surprises Act, if you are not using insurance to pay for therapy, you have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate of what your care is expected to cost. You can ask for one before scheduling, and you will receive it in writing before your first session.

To learn more about your rights, visit cms.gov/nosurprises or call the No Surprises Help Desk at 1-800-985-3059.

Crisis & Emergency Information

This website and email communication are not monitored for urgent or emergency situations. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or feel that you may be at risk of harming yourself or someone else, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room. You may also contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 for immediate support.

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San Diego, CA 92130. All sessions are online, anywhere in California.

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